PSA for women – yes we can kiss!

It’s something of a trope that “sex workers don’t kiss because it’s too intimate”. I guess that came about from Pretty Woman.

I’ve never really understood it myself. How is kissing more “intimate” than having penetrative sex? Or even oral sex? It’s just kissing – literally something that you can do in public and barely generate a look from passers by.

But it’s a persistent idea and one that some women who come to see me aren’t sure about. So I’d like to set the record straight – yes we can kiss! (Because kissing is fabulous and sexy and it really wouldn’t be sex without it).

John

Do you want to learn how to kiss?

I was reminded recently that kissing is great and that we should do more of it – and that some people aren’t confident about kissing and so don’t really enjoy it.

Now I was going to write an article about it when I remembered that I have already written an article about kissing – way back in November of 2016 – almost eight years ago!

So, rather than re-inventing the wheel, I’ll just give you a taste (sorry!) and a link to the original.

“Kissing is cool. How cool? Really cool. Like make your entire day WAY better cool. I have been reminded of this fact twice recently when I was booked to give a Kissing Lesson – yes, seriously, that’s a thing that I can do for you.

Google “benefits of kissing” and you will find a wealth of research and explanations about the effects and benefits of kissing – like boosting seratonin, decreasing cortisol, improving immunity, and much more. So we know for a fact that kissing is genuinely, measurably good for us.”

From: Kissing, sex, and conversation

I can give you lessons in kissing and I can give you a safe, non-judgemental opportunity to practice kissing if you want to be better at kissing and enjoy it more.

John

It’s ok to need to work on things – and to ask me to help

Many women who come to see me are doing so in search of, or needing something beyond just the enjoyment of sex. I received this email recently from a woman who is on her own journey through talk therapy and now physical exploration with me as well.

Hi John,

My psychologist said my root causes are emotion deprivation and abandonment, and the corresponding behavior is control.  Be weighted on [feeling your weight on me] is also a good way to feel safe and connected.

E

I am sharing it (with permission) because I know that there are women out there who, like E, want to have a safe, consensual sexual experience, to try to improve their lives and their enjoyment of sex but just don’t know how to get it. And if they are contemplating seeing a sex worker like me then many women don’t know where to start or what they can tell me.

I have been providing a safe and respectful service to women for over fourteen years now and the answer is that you are always welcome to drop me an email and start a conversation. You don’t need to tell me everything straight away, but you are always welcome to share what you feel is important and that will help us to give you the experience that you want to have.

I’m not judgemental and will always put your safety, pleasure, and wellbeing first

John

Saturday November 2nd availability

My diary is filling up fast for the rest of the year – but I just happen to have a Saturday available due to a booking being moved, that is November 2nd.

If you have been thinking about making a booking soon with me and a Saturday is your preferred day then this is a rare chance to get a Saturday night date on short notice! Drop me an email, or text, or give me a call.

John

A special night out

From a conversation (with permission)…

Hi John are you free Friday night next week? We have a request
Hi Anthea 🙂 Yes I am, what do you have in mind?
Have you ever been to a sex club, do you know a good one?
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The perfect way to end a delightful night!

If you are thinking of booking an overnight date with me then consider extending things a little in the morning and indulging in breakfast by the harbour! With spring arriving it’s the perfect weather for breakfast at a nice cafe with a stunning view.

If you have been thinking about an overnight booking then I have a free Saturday night on 7th of September.

“It feels lame just asking for a cuddle”

A woman I’ve known for a while now saw my recent post about “spontaneity”, but decided that while she felt like having something, she didn’t feel like having sex. Then – as per the title of this post – she felt it was a bit lame thinking of just asking for time with me to cuddle.

Now I’ve talked about this before but it bears mentioning again – you are very welcome to book me just for a cuddle – or even just to sit on the couch and talk with a cup of tea, or a glass of wine!

There is no need for a booking with me to include sex or anything intimate if that’s what you want. A booking can be literally anything that you want it to be – from a relaxed chat to a world trip! It’s entirely up to you and what you need.

John

Time to visit me in Sydney!

I grew up in Victoria and lived there until I was 28. I have a lot of fond memories of the state including rock climbing in the Grampians and You Yangs, sailing on Port Philip Bay, studying at Swinburne University, and the beaches along the south coast.

But I always had one big problem with Melbourne and Victoria – I really felt the cold during winter! So back in the year 2000 I moved to Sydney. I’ve lived here on and off ever since and while Sydney has it’s issues like any big city I do have to say – winter in Sydney is GREAT.

I just love these mild, sunny winter days. It’s great for walking and exploring, or sitting on the couch with a book – or someone else and a glass of wine!

So if you feel like getting away from Melbourne – or anywhere else that the winter has set in – then why not consider a visit to Sydney and share some time with me.

John

For one week only…

Due to the torrential rain we’ve been having here in NSW I will be available here in Sydney all of next week (Sunday 16th to Sunday 23rd of June). So if you have been thinking about a booking with me on a week day or evening, then now is the perfect time!

I was in the Southern Highlands yesterday and saw this amazing rain storm perfectly back lit across the valley. While smart phone cameras are great I really wish I’d had one of my professional cameras to hand!

John

Spontaneity

In my last post I talked about anticipation and how savoring the build up to a booking can make it even better. But there’s another option too – spontaneity!

Most women who come to see me take their time to read my website over many months before they finally make the decision to book with me. But if you are sitting at home on this long weekend and wondering what might be fun to do – then you could just take the plunge! Give me a call, or drop me a text. Lets meet up and have an afternoon or evening of sensual exploration.

There is not much to compare to the rush of adrenaline of taking the plunge with a stranger – but with me you know that you are safe and respected while also able to ask for whatever you want.

So – call me now if you’re ready for a rush! 0437 520 539

John