A testimonial

If you are here reading these testimonials to help you decide whether to go ahead and make a booking with John, then don’t hesitate any longer, seeing John will be one of the best experiences of your life and you will not regret it.

John’s website is an accurate representation of who he is and will give you a good idea of what to expect when you meet him.

John is non-judgemental, kind, thoughtful and extremely talented at what he does. Even if you don’t know yourself exactly what you would like, trust that John will work it out. He is an excellent conversationalist and is knowledgeable about a wide range of topics. Don’t worry if you are feeling nervous or shy, he will make sure there are no awkward silences. John excites the mind as well as the body!

From a simple chat, a movie, a cuddle or sensual massage to spectacular sex, John can do it all. Difficulty reaching orgasm? No problem, John will work out what you need even if you are not sure. I am the first to admit that reaching orgasm is not easy for me, but John took the time to figure it out. Want to explore ‘kinks’ then he will provide a safe place to do that.

From my very first time seeing John, he has made me feel safe, heard, seen, sexy and desired, all things I had been missing for some time. As well as the mind blowing sex, he provided the intimacy that had been absent from my life for far too long, the kissing, the cuddles, simple touch, holding my hand. I was incredibly nervous the first time, so much so, that I felt physically sick, but John still manged to relax me and enabled an evening of fun and sexual fulfillment that far exceeded my expectations. Like most women I lack body confidence, but with John many of those negative thoughts disappear.

I have continued to see John several times since and have also been fortunate to be able to spend a couple of days away with him and during this time experienced his excellent culinary skills, in addition to his other talents :) He is the ideal travel companion to explore new places with and provides a stress free experience. Time spent with John is always extremely pleasurable and completely satisfying.

If you have any doubts, concerns or questions make sure to reach out to John, he replies promptly and will allay any of your fears. Go ahead, take the first step, send him a text or email, it will be an incredible experience :)

S, Melbourne

Would you like to have your own Grand Day Out?

I made a short film way back in 2016 of a visit to the beach – titled A Grand Day Out.

With the warm weather here I was thinking about the beach and adventures…

If you need a break after this long strange years and would like to take some time of with me for company, then drop me a line.

We can go to the beach, or a walk in the Blue Mountains (The Grand Canyon hike is excellent), or just a cafe with good food, cold drinks, and a view…

What’s your idea of a grand day out?

WARNING
this short film contains nudity and is NOT SAFE FOR WORK

John

PSA for women – yes we can kiss!

It’s something of a trope that “sex workers don’t kiss because it’s too intimate”. I guess that came about from Pretty Woman.

I’ve never really understood it myself. How is kissing more “intimate” than having penetrative sex? Or even oral sex? It’s just kissing – literally something that you can do in public and barely generate a look from passers by.

But it’s a persistent idea and one that some women who come to see me aren’t sure about. So I’d like to set the record straight – yes we can kiss! (Because kissing is fabulous and sexy and it really wouldn’t be sex without it).

John

Do you want to learn how to kiss?

I was reminded recently that kissing is great and that we should do more of it – and that some people aren’t confident about kissing and so don’t really enjoy it.

Now I was going to write an article about it when I remembered that I have already written an article about kissing – way back in November of 2016 – almost eight years ago!

So, rather than re-inventing the wheel, I’ll just give you a taste (sorry!) and a link to the original.

“Kissing is cool. How cool? Really cool. Like make your entire day WAY better cool. I have been reminded of this fact twice recently when I was booked to give a Kissing Lesson – yes, seriously, that’s a thing that I can do for you.

Google “benefits of kissing” and you will find a wealth of research and explanations about the effects and benefits of kissing – like boosting seratonin, decreasing cortisol, improving immunity, and much more. So we know for a fact that kissing is genuinely, measurably good for us.”

From: Kissing, sex, and conversation

I can give you lessons in kissing and I can give you a safe, non-judgemental opportunity to practice kissing if you want to be better at kissing and enjoy it more.

John

It’s ok to need to work on things – and to ask me to help

Many women who come to see me are doing so in search of, or needing something beyond just the enjoyment of sex. I received this email recently from a woman who is on her own journey through talk therapy and now physical exploration with me as well.

Hi John,

My psychologist said my root causes are emotion deprivation and abandonment, and the corresponding behavior is control.  Be weighted on [feeling your weight on me] is also a good way to feel safe and connected.

E

I am sharing it (with permission) because I know that there are women out there who, like E, want to have a safe, consensual sexual experience, to try to improve their lives and their enjoyment of sex but just don’t know how to get it. And if they are contemplating seeing a sex worker like me then many women don’t know where to start or what they can tell me.

I have been providing a safe and respectful service to women for over fourteen years now and the answer is that you are always welcome to drop me an email and start a conversation. You don’t need to tell me everything straight away, but you are always welcome to share what you feel is important and that will help us to give you the experience that you want to have.

I’m not judgemental and will always put your safety, pleasure, and wellbeing first

John

Saturday November 2nd availability

My diary is filling up fast for the rest of the year – but I just happen to have a Saturday available due to a booking being moved, that is November 2nd.

If you have been thinking about making a booking soon with me and a Saturday is your preferred day then this is a rare chance to get a Saturday night date on short notice! Drop me an email, or text, or give me a call.

John

A special night out

From a conversation (with permission)…

Hi John are you free Friday night next week? We have a request
Hi Anthea 🙂 Yes I am, what do you have in mind?
Have you ever been to a sex club, do you know a good one?
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The perfect way to end a delightful night!

If you are thinking of booking an overnight date with me then consider extending things a little in the morning and indulging in breakfast by the harbour! With spring arriving it’s the perfect weather for breakfast at a nice cafe with a stunning view.

If you have been thinking about an overnight booking then I have a free Saturday night on 7th of September.

“It feels lame just asking for a cuddle”

A woman I’ve known for a while now saw my recent post about “spontaneity”, but decided that while she felt like having something, she didn’t feel like having sex. Then – as per the title of this post – she felt it was a bit lame thinking of just asking for time with me to cuddle.

Now I’ve talked about this before but it bears mentioning again – you are very welcome to book me just for a cuddle – or even just to sit on the couch and talk with a cup of tea, or a glass of wine!

There is no need for a booking with me to include sex or anything intimate if that’s what you want. A booking can be literally anything that you want it to be – from a relaxed chat to a world trip! It’s entirely up to you and what you need.

John

Time to visit me in Sydney!

I grew up in Victoria and lived there until I was 28. I have a lot of fond memories of the state including rock climbing in the Grampians and You Yangs, sailing on Port Philip Bay, studying at Swinburne University, and the beaches along the south coast.

But I always had one big problem with Melbourne and Victoria – I really felt the cold during winter! So back in the year 2000 I moved to Sydney. I’ve lived here on and off ever since and while Sydney has it’s issues like any big city I do have to say – winter in Sydney is GREAT.

I just love these mild, sunny winter days. It’s great for walking and exploring, or sitting on the couch with a book – or someone else and a glass of wine!

So if you feel like getting away from Melbourne – or anywhere else that the winter has set in – then why not consider a visit to Sydney and share some time with me.

John