I know – it sounds like the subject line from a spam email, but it’s a serious question. Over the years I have met many women who lacked confidence in their bodies, their attractiveness, their sexual knowledge, and their abilities to please a lover.
These concerns are so common that I even offer a course to help teach the skills and give women the opportunity to practice them in a safe, controlled environment.
Many people make the assumption that sex – being natural and normal between people – is something that everyone (except for them!) just knows how to do. In reality none of us know anything more than what we see others doing (usually porn of some form) and what we experience ourselves.
So if you have little or no experience then sex can be really intimidating.
This is why I offer my course. I want everyone who wants to be confident in bed to have a place they can go to learn the skills they want to have.
This is the course outline that I use as a starting point to plan out lessons when you book with me…
Potential topics:
- Touch (clothed)
- Kissing (lips)
- Undressing
- Touch (naked)
- Cuddling
- Hair
- Erotic massage
- Body slide/full body touch
- Kissing (full body)
- Reading your partner
- Intimate touch
- Giving oral sex
- Receiving oral sex
- Masturbation
- Edging
- “Showing off” / being seen
- Penetrative sex, positions, rhythm, flow
- Anal play, giving and receiving
- Anal sex, giving and receiving
- Spanking
- After care
You can pick as many or as few items as you want. If it’s a short list then we can probably cover it in one or two sessions of two hours each. If it’s a longer list then it will require more.
You can of course add any topic that you might be interested in that isn’t listed here.
I prefer to keep lessons to two hours with a break in the middle as that is a length of time that is enough without being too much to handle physically and mentally.
So if you want to improve your confidence, or broaden your knowledge then why not drop me a line with your educational wish list!
John