Keeping up with the competition…

Every few years I take a look around the internet to see who is out here offering male escort services for women. Australia – and especially NSW where sex work in general is decriminalised – has really become a leader in visible male sex workers for women. There are some independent guys, a number of agencies, a few “directories” that offer male services for women, and there’s me.

I was surprised when I looked recently to only find a handful of websites for straight male escorts in Sydney other than my own. That said, there are now a few escort directories that have a selection of men as well. So there is some choice out there.

I’ve been working in this industry for over ten years now full time and I have worn my own little groove in it so to speak. I have a look that is definitely not what people might expect from a male escort (I don’t do lot of abs and muscle flexing and I’m not doing the debonair suit and tie thing). I am much more comfortable in my trademark denim jeans and white t-shirt honestly.

When I look at other male escorts in their suits and ties, or oiled up for the gym I will have a moment and wonder if perhaps I need to be trying to compete with that. Some of those guys look good!

But then I think about who I am and the service that I provide best – that is the opportunity to spend time with a real person – a whole person, not just a fantasy body or face.

What I’m interested in is you and your needs and making you feel great. If you are nervous, then I will put you at ease. If you want to spend time with someone who is fun to be with, share a meal, wine, and conversation, then I’m a good choice. If you just want some good honest sex, then I excel at that. If you want to explore your fantasies and push your boundaries, then I’m a safe and respectful choice with significant experience and no ego. If you just want someone to “see” you and make you feel special for once, then I will absolutely do that for you.

We all have our moments of insecurity in life and I am no different to anyone else in that regard. But I believe 100% that if I tried to be something that I am not then it won’t ring true. I know that most people who contact me have spent a lot of time researching male escorts in general and me in particular, so that effort deserves my respect and my honesty in how I present myself.

I will continue to be myself. And to offer my services my way. If that sounds good to you, then drop me a line – if not, then that’s ok too. There are as I have discovered, some more – if not plenty – of fish in this ocean! Which is good for everyone.

John.

4 thoughts on “Keeping up with the competition…

  1. When I was doing my ‘research’ , your website was the only independent one I found. You’re down to earth & can have an easy conversation about anything with you which is so good.
    It’s crazy how many of the other escorts out there look like models.

    • Thank you Elizabeth :-)
      I try hard to give people a realistic view on this sight of who I am and what I value.

      And yes there are lots of *very* attractive guys out there! And I say that as a confirmed straight male :-)

  2. Hi John
    You sound too good to be true as a male sex worker. I’ve come across a few dodgy ones in the past. You can’t be that perfect?
    I miss the Neesa clips. I guess real life didn’t like them

    • Hi Bella, thank you for your comment – to be sure, I am just a man and definitely don’t claim to be perfect. I do hold myself to certain standards though in my work – like putting my client’s needs ahead of my own. And refunding a client’s money without complaint if they are not satisfied with my service.

      At the end of the day we are all human and we have to accept that fact and strive to be the best we can be – but also be prepared to take responsibility when we fall short.

      Regarding my film with Inessa – real life was very happy with it and wanted more, unfortunately I had to take it down to protect her privacy. This is a sad example of just how judgemental people can be about sex and sexuality and erotic as so many people loved the film and took the time to comment on it.

      I don’t discriminate against anyone when filming, but I am limited ultimately by who offers to film with me. It takes a *lot* of courage and confidence to do that so it is rare that someone who is larger will want to.

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