The average woman in Australia lives to be 90. If you’re 50 you still have 40 years ahead of you – almost half your life! That time should not be joyless. It should not be sexless. And it absolutely does not have to be.

But it has to end some time doesn’t it? Well, not so far for the 83 year old woman who bookes me several times per year. Not for my 60 year old friend who has more suitors (male and female of a wide range of ages) than at any time in her life.

Society may be tell women that aging makes them less desirable but the reality is entirely different. There are many advantages to having sex as a mature person. Age brings experience. Age brings confidence. Age reduces insecurities. Age brings more experienced partners. Age brings better understanding of your own limits and boundaries and the confidence to stand by them.

Significant medical issues aside – we can all continue having sex for as long as we want. There will always be people who will want to join us. We just have to remember that fact and not shut ourselves off from the pleasure of our sexuality.

If that seems daunting to you and you don’t have the confidence then drop me a line. I can help you to reconnect with your body and your sexuality and give you the confidence that you need.

John