From a conversation (with permission)…
Hi John are you free Friday night next week? We have a request
Hi Anthea 🙂 Yes I am, what do you have in mind?
Have you ever been to a sex club, do you know a good one?
I have and I do!
Hopefully not sleazy?
No not at all. Our Secret Spot in Annandale. They have a website with photos of the club you can have a look at. So what are you thinking?
I have a fantasy of being watched
but I want to be safe
I totally understand that. Our Secret Spot is a good choice. I’ve never had a problem there and you can choose how public/private you want things to be. Have a look at their website and you can see all of the different rooms.
Ok I’m thinking that I want people to see us but not to join us if you know what I mean? I only want you and David to touch me.
Yes, understood we can definitely make sure that it’s just us, but at the same time allow others others to watch. People are pretty respectful there and even if you are in the main room they will ask if you want them to join you. If you are in a room, then you can put the rope up at the door and they know not to enter 🙂
I want to start with you with David watching us, can you massage me then go down on me like you do?
Absolutely I can!
And then we can have sex. I want to try that thing you wrote about of having David sit behind and hold me while you have sex with me then you can swap
David is pretty excited about it.
Sure we can try that.
Early Friday night…
Hey we should be there by 9.30pm
Ok great, I’ll be there. You can generally park on Parramatta Rd very close to the club. I’ll meet you outside
See you soon very nervous!
The next day…
Hi John. We wanted to say thank you for such a great night
You are very welcome Athena 🙂
I was super nervous as I’m sure you could tell but having both of you there it was ok. I’m glad we started in the little room that let me relax but it was really hot moving to the big room and there being more people to watch us. I honestly don’t even remember all of it just got carried away by the two of you. We are talking about when we can do that again. Thinking about trying out that swing thing!
It was my pleasure Athena, I’m really glad that you enjoyed it. I’m happy to take you again any time 🙂
Do you have a fantasy that you would like to explore but have never found someone to share it with?
John
Hi John, thanks for this post. I was going to email you, but figured I would post here instead in case someone else can benefit from this question and answer.
For quite some time I have wondered about OSS. I had been interested to go, but worried that my age and body might not fit in there. All the images I see on their social media are young, slim beautiful women who look like lingerie models. Further, in some of their podcasts women talk about their routine for getting ready – Botox, spray tans, eyelash extensions etc. I fear my nearly-50, overweight, pretty low maintenance body would not really be welcome there.
So my question is: how much body diversity do you see there re age and weight? Is it genuinely a place where ‘anybody’ will be welcomed? Thanks :)
Hi SR, thank you for your questions. Regarding body diversity – yes there tends to be a wide range of ages and body types at OSS. But it varies widely from night to night. Regardless though I have never heard of anyone being body shamed and have always felt it was a comfortable and accepting environment.
My main advice to anyone going there is this: go with someone you trust and can play with. Enjoy the atmosphere and have your own fun together. If the mood and the people are right then you might meet others you like and can have an experience with.
The clients I went to OSS with in the conversation above had no desire to include other people in our play, but they really enjoyed being watched and watching others and the general atmosphere.
The main reason I see people not enjoy themselves is: too many expectations – and not being aligned in what they want, boundaries, etc with the person they go with.
So – if you have clear boundaries, set your expectations low, and be prepared to make your own fun you have given yourself the best chance to have a good night!
Thanks John – hopefully we can go there together sometime. Maybe that can be my New Year’s resolution!
Well that would be fun! It would be my pleasure to go with you.