A threesome guide for couples

So you have decided that you would like to employ a male escort for a threesome.

The next question is: when your escort arrives, what are you all going to do?

First thing to do is take a moment to chat, do introductions, and see if you are all comfortable together. If there are any immediate turn-offs, or incompatibilities, you can end the date then and there. Some people may feel bad about rejecting an escort, but it’s better to do so than go on if you’re not comfortable. A professional escort will understand that and respect your wishes. It is reasonable though to expect to pay for at least the escort’s travel if you are going to cancel. This issue should by rights be addressed when you make your booking.

The next thing to do is get payment out of the way. I always negotiate price and payment before the date, so it should be very simple. If you decide upon meeting that you would like to change the arrangement (to make it longer, or shorter), then now is the time to discuss this and work out any changes to the payment arrangement.

Once introductions are done, payment is completed, and everyone is comfortable, it’s time to have some fun.

Every couple I have dated want something different from a male escort, some couples have firm ideas and elaborate scenarios planned out, some don’t. Following are some examples if you are looking for ideas …

The Voyeur

Some couples want to indulge the fantasy of the woman having sex with another man while her partner watches. It’s a lot of fun putting on a show like this and great for couples where the man may be hesitant about being close to another guy.

The man finds a comfortable spot to sit and watch from, while his partner and I get to work. We start by turning the lights down low, or lighting candles, then spreading out some towels.

We undress each other, touching and caressing as we go. Exploring each other’s bodies, showing ourselves off to her partner as he watches. When we are both naked, she lies down on her front on the towels and I bring out the massage oil. I start by warming oil in my hands, then slowly spreading it along her back and bottom and down her legs. I might then kneel astride her legs and start working my hands up and down her back, kneading the muscles, soothing away any tension … as she starts to relax an enjoy my touch, I work my way lower, kneeling beside her now, I work my hands over her bottom, kneading the muscles, then down to her legs. I might start at her toes, massaging her feet and slowly working my way up, as I get closer to her bottom she allows her legs to slip apart a little, exposing her self to us. As my hand travel up her thighs, working the muscles she begins to rock her hips and bottom under my hands. As her legs drift further apart and I again massage her bottom and inner thighs, her lips part a little, revealing her arousal in small glistening drop between them.

Now, I gently push her legs further apart, exposing her fully as her partner looks on. I slide my hands up and down between her legs grazing her lips as I pass them, making her quiver and moan just a little. Eventually, I cup my hand between her legs, my fingers over her clit, my palm against her lips, rubbing slowly, building her pleasure.

Soon I whisper in her ear to turn over, telling her how she excites me and that I want to see more of her body. She rolls over on the towels, smiling up and strokes my legs, her hand straying between them to stroke and caress me. She wriggles a little, getting comfortable, spreading her legs as I move to kneel between. I reach up, sliding my hands over her stomach, reaching up to her breasts to kneed and squeeze them, playing with her nipples.

I work my hands back down again and lower my head to kiss my way up each thigh, brushing her lips with mine as I move from one side to the other, teasing her with my breath. Then I begin to gently stroke and kiss and lick the lips of her pussy and her clit, increasing her arousal, and eventually bringing her to orgasm, possibly even more than once.

Now we are ready to have sex and (after I pop on a condom) we choose a position. It can be fun finding a position that shows off the most for her partner, like her on top, or spooning. This is meant to be a voyeur’s delight, so we want to give him the best show possible!

When we have finished, it’s time to swap. Some couples, their fantasy fulfilled, like me to leave at that point, while they continue having sex. I am quite happy with that and will usually have a quick shower then let myself out. Others like me to stay and watch, and may ask me to join them again for more fun.

Four hands are better than two

Massage is great, but you can add a totally new dimension to it if two (or more) people deliver the massage. One of my favourite things is for me and the male partner of a couple to work together and give her the ultimate massage experience. We have her sit down and relax while we prepare. Setting up my massage table, spreading towels, lighting candles, perhaps putting on some music. Then we strip off and ask her to stand up. Together we slowly strip her cloths off, taking time to touch and kiss her, and admire her body as we work until she is quite naked.

Now she lies down on the massage table and we bring out the oil. We warm the oil in our hands and then begin to apply it, one at her shoulders, one at her feet. Working slowly toward her bottom, one of us on either side eventually we meet in the middle an symphony of stroking, squeezing, rubbing hands, teasing and arousing …

With skilful combined work we can bring her to orgasm, using our bodies and sex toys to give her as much pleasure as she can bear.

All together

One of my favourite ways to have sex with a couple is … the three of us relax naked with a drink, in a comfortable setting. Low lights, relaxing music, chatting, touching, stroking, exploring each others bodies. There is no plan, no expectations, we just follow our desires wherever they take us. This is also a splendid arrangement for a larger group like two or three couples and works best when you have a small cosy space that is comfortable to play in.

Nested

This is another favourite of mine, one men sits, while the woman lies back in his lap allowing him to stroke and play with her arms, her neck, her hair, her breasts and her sides. The other man is free to play with her lower body. The combination of two bodies so close, I am told can make her feel completely absorbed, totally worshipped and adored.


There are many more options that I could list, but I hope that this has given you some inspiration! Creativity and clever use of the mind, body, and toys are the very best tools for creating an awesome and erotic experience. And with multiple partners, there are so many more options for the creative mind.

John.

4 thoughts on “A threesome guide for couples

  1. A– and I are interested in having a threesome with a well endowed escort this saturday in Sydney if available. this is our first time so will be a bit nervous at first. NOT sure if i would join you guys as i would like to see A– enjoy her self. A– is attractive and we would more than likely get straight to business when meeting at a motel . Could we get a photo please and what are your thought on this.

    • Thanks for your enquiry M&A. I have replied by email, but I thought that I would post a reply here as it may be useful to others too.

      I am quite happy for you just to watch M, and if you were to decide at some point that you would like to join in, then that is fine too. Many women find the experience of being pampered and aroused by two men at the same time to be extremely satisfying.
      Photos have been sent by email as requested.

      I don’t have a place to meet in Sydney at this time, but am happy to come to you at home, or a hotel, or motel.
      John.

  2. Just wanted to thank you for this, and also the other page about new couples. For those of us considering this, well seriously looking for, as you put it, the right professional partner, this was very enlightening. And enlightened of you!

    Here I thought we were a little odd, maybe, and were perhaps making a potential uncomfortable asking about exactly what you are describing here. Now I don’t feel that way at all. Thank you, John!

    If only we were on your continent!

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