When I started writing this article it was with a sense of frustration about what I see happening to women in relationships.  I regularly meet women – through my work as a male escort – who come to me because their partners (who they love and respect, and who’s company they enjoy) won’t give them the intimacy and sex that they want and need.

I am frustrated because these men seem to have no idea what they have to loose.  It takes a lot for any person dedicated to their relationship to take the leap to visit an escort.  It is not something done flippantly.  It’s done because for many women this is the only way they feel they can get the sex that they need without compromising themselves and endangering their relationship.

I really wish that as a society we could have a better conversation about relationships, what they mean, what we want and need from them, and how we can all get what we need to allow us to be happy – as opposed to the assumption that we operate under now that one person can and always will be able to fulfill all of our needs. Something that is clearly not true for the majority of people.

John