Update! My personal experience with a We-Vibe

Well, I have now had the very interesting experience of sex with a We-Vibe. Summary: well worth trying this sex toy!

It was fun. It is cute, and it is amazing just how well it fits the female anatomy. Once it’s in/on it doesn’t go anywhere and really does its job.

I was quite curious to know how it would effect sex for me (as well as my partner). Since vibrating sex toys are mostly the preserve of women (and I don’t have much interest in the Fleshlight) it was a new experience for me.

Firstly I am delighted to say that it didn’t really make me orgasm much quicker than normal. The sensation was enjoyable, but not too intense. It added another level of enjoyment to sex, which is always a good thing. My partner however seemed to be helped along to orgasm quite a bit faster by the We-Vibe. That’s a real benefit for many women.

There are a few things though that need to be considered though when using a We-Vibe:

• Use heaps of lube. Not just a little dab, or a small squirt. I mean, heaps. Especially if (like me), the guy is wearing a condom. The combination of We-Vibe and condom makes even a very slippery pussy dry up quite quickly. If that happens, the We-Vibe can get quite attached to one or both of you. Not a good thing.
• This was a real surprise to me: I ended up with a small bruise on the top side of my penis, near the base after sex with the We-Vibe. I belive that it was caused by the relatively hard material of the We-Vibe (relative to the very soft and cushioning opening of a vagina) at it’s narrowest point where it sits against the woman’s pubic bone. Vigorous sex hammers this harder part of the toy against the top side of the penis (and the top of the opening of the vagina). So, I would recommend that when using a We-Vibe that you consider going a little easy. Long slow sex seems less likely to cause any bruising by what is otherwise a great toy.

So, there you have it. I am now nolonger a We-Vibe virgin, and I have discovered that I can handle the extra stimulation without cuming in five seconds flat. All in all a great first experience and one that I would definitely recommend to any couple (or single) with the dollars to afford this great little toy!

This isn’t so much a review as a preview. I have seen this toy advertised around the net quite a lot. Apparently it’s on its second incarnation and winning awards and aclaim.

It looks pretty cool and seems like a neat idea. A toy that you don’t have to hold and you can use while having sex that stimulates a woman’s clit and her g-spot at the same time as well as her partner’s penis.

From the manufacturer’s website:

The We-Vibe’s anatomical shape will fit women’s internal contours and will naturally and comfortably nestle in and massage the G-Spot. The flexible We-Vibe will conform inside you to accommodate the shape of the vagina while making love in different positions.

So, it’s a double ended vibrator that you can use while having sex. Very nifty, especially for women who need more stimulation than just penetration can provide to orgasm. Personally I expect that it would make most men come in about ten seconds flat! But then there are guys who need some extra stimulation too, so it might be a little slice of heaven for them and their partners.

As mentioned, I haven’t gotten around to buying one of these toys, but if you would like to try one out on a date with me, then let me know and I will see about getting one. I am sure that it could make for some extra fun.

You can find the manufacturers website with more info here: http://we-vibe.com/

John.