Not everyone comes to me for a conventional “date”.  Increasingly I am contacted by women who have a problem in their lives around sex, self image, or sexual confidence that they want to address.

Traditional therapy and self help only goes so far and can’t provide the safe, hands on experience that many women need with a man to address and overcome their fears and bad experiences.  Not being a licensed therapist means that I can provide a physical service that allows women to take the next step in their journey to self confidence and a healthy sex life.

So, how does it work?

Every woman’s situation is different, so I don’t have a specific service.  Instead I offer two hour sessions (as many or as few as you would like) that we can tailor to suit your situation.

For women who want to gain experience and learn sexual techniques (like sensual massage, awareness of self and partner, how to give oral to a man, masturbation, prostate massage etc) I like to arrange a series of two hour sessions (usually five).  This allows me to teach the technique, then give you a chance to practice them with me.

Occasionally someone with serious issues around trust and intimacy will be referred to me by their therapist.  What we do is of course completely dependent upon your situation, but it can start with something simple and non-threatening like meeting for a meal and spending time together talking.  From there we can progress at your pace and begin to address physical intimacy, learning to accept and enjoy touch, and ultimately build trust and confidence.

I have tried to give an overview here of what I can offer, but of course everyone’s needs are specific to them. If this is what you are looking for, please email or call me to discuss your needs and we can arrange sessions that will suit you.